Life lessons don’t have to be written in the form of books and manuscripts. Even one sentence, or who knows, even a word can teach you something crazy that will stick with you for the rest of your life. Here are 10 sentences that I read somewhere and could not get over. Not only were they very motivational and inspiring for me as a young struggler, they showed me a reality that I was never able to see on my own.
Some of them may be enlightening while some may come as a shock but all of them can drastically change your life for the good if you allow them to.
You can continue feeling sad and sorry for something that happened in the past but people stopped feeling anything about it right after the conversation faded.
This had to be my first life lesson that I would tell literally everyone around me. This came as a shock, I was introduced to a reality that I knew but was naive enough to accept on my own.
You think you have people who care, you are absolutely right. But you think there are people who care about your problems as much as you do, I am honestly not sorry for bursting your bubble. Your close friends and family may understand what you are going through, they may lend you their shoulder and promise you that they are here for you, but they won’t feel sorry for more than a day or two.
Locking Yourself Will Only Make You More Sad
If you are sad, locking yourself inside or spending the whole day lying isn’t going to help. Step out, even if it means stepping out alone. You don’t need a company, no company is better than yours. The sooner you realize, the happier you shall get. Take yourself out on a coffee date. After all, that is what we are supposed to do with our loved ones.
Letting Go Is Important. Learn to Let Go for Your Own Sanity
There is no point sticking to the past. You are only going to hurt yourself by touching the wound again and again. Let it fill in. Let it heal. Let it go. Letting go will help release the pain. The sooner you move on, the sooner you will be better again.
Accept Whatever Has Happened, Living in Denial Isn’t Going to Help.
A lot of people believe living in denial will allow them to avoid emotions and pain. That is not the case, suppressing your pain and emotions will only hurt you for a longer time. After all, it is still inside you. You are just not addressing it. It is better to accept the reality, whatever has happened. Cry, embrace the pain, and let it go. Do not get stuck on something. Acknowledge, accept, and move to the next thing.
You Don’t Lose When You Fail, but When You Stop Trying
No matter how many attempts you make. How many times you fall, if you are struggling to achieve something, you are trying. This will eventually bring you one step closer to your destination. You will learn every time you fall and choose to stand up. But the time you refuse to stand up again is the time you have lost it.
Nobody Is Self-Made. Everyone Needs Some Support.
You must have heard people saying how they did something all by themselves and achieved everything with zero support. That is not true. Sure they may not have received support or appreciation from people they considered close once, but they certainly would have taken help from their team or someone professional. Maybe their business requires them to depend on another business for raw material, that too is support. There are always people who help but are not given rightful credits for the success and team efforts.
A Career Should Give You Purpose Not Just Financial Stability
Sure, financial stability is important. We all work for money at the end of the day. But that work seems more fun and intriguing when we choose the right career. A career should be something that ignites passion and keeps you passionate about work for a long, long term. Instead of choosing a career with better prospects, choose something that you can do happily even if you are paid less or have to start from scratch.
In the end, all I have to say is, you matter. Your opinion, mindset, thoughts, health, decisions, everything matters. If not to anyone you know, look into the mirror, you will find someone who matters more than everyone you know. Take care of yourself and live a life that you would want. Also, check out Islandnow’s delta-8 flower to know the best THC strains you can buy online in 2021.